2783. Lillie Darlene Meader (1957 - ) Lillie Darlene Meader, daughter of James I. Meader (b.1919) [1214] and Lela May Neal (b. 1925), was born April 17, 1957 at Houston. She married: 1) Billy J. Newell, the son of Billy J. and Wilma Newell, on August 5, 1975. They were divorced about 1980. 2) Melvin E. Cates, who brought Melvin, a son, to the marriage. A son, Jared Neal Cates was born in Houston, Texas on January 5, 1982. A daughter, Ashley Belinda Cates was born in Conroe, Texas on December 27, 1983. They were divorced in 1989. 3) David A. Riggs, son of Harold L. Riggs and Dorothy M. Guillotte on November 20, 2004.